just be there for her. if she’s avoiding you, just let her know you’ll give her space and you’re still there for her. sometimes when people tell you their darkest secrets, they become ashamed in themselves and therefore want to disassociate with the whole ordeal even if it includes avoiding the friends. sometimes they just want to hide. don’t make them confront things they are not ready for. sometimes being a good friend just means letting them know nothing has changed between you guys because sometimes that’s what they’re afraid of.
when girls hit on me i take it as a compliment but when boys hit on me my eyes roll to the back of my head and i involuntarily vom a bit
— Haruki Murakami, Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage (via jeou)